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What’s Dead is Alive Again

Cher : “I have had two women friends just a few years older than me commit suicide this past two years. I am in awe of them. I don

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 2:48 pm

Cher, see up above, where there’s more room : ) –

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 2:35 pm

Agree, that part is sad, because it’s so alone ….
Still, it was ultimately a very kind act –

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 2:29 pm

LOL !!
Bottle opener in mouth seems like a very good (and practical) place indeed –
I add : throw in all the empty bottles (champagne must be included) – then ditch it all in a big dumpster when it’s all over πŸ˜‰

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 2:27 pm

What a very cool hombre, really –
I think after spending as many years alive as I have (heh) I’ve become practical : about life, about emotions, about death & all things dramatic, sad & over-wrought ….
It is what it is : if death looms (not too far) ahead, handle it quick & try not to make those left behind feel worse for it –
A toast to the empathetic, practical elderly man then !

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 2:25 pm

Ohhhh that’s rich ! As if they were discussing buying a tuxedo πŸ™‚
What film was that from ?
Gracias Dios for the youtubes ….

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 2:11 pm

LOL ! I like it ! That’s it then, a Hefty party, with a Hefty bag o’ ashes as the centerpiece πŸ˜€

& πŸ˜† yes, verrry sexy !

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 2:06 pm

I don’t remember what we did with the photos – I’d imagine my parents prob. threw them away –
I do remember that they tried to shield us from morbid events like this, but kids are quite hardy I think, when it comes to handling those early signs that life isn’t a fairy tale at all –

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 1:51 pm

LOL – I too, will leave no instructions except :
Cremate me, dump the ashes somewhere practical & then party in honor of my ‘livingness’, not my death –
I want nothing special to happen for me, ’cause if I’m gone, I’m gone πŸ˜‰

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 1:48 pm

ChoiceLady, you conjured up something else for me – when you mentioned the narcissism that is made apparent in death :
I’ve noticed that that tendency toward narcissism (in life) is actually becoming a bit healthier among (many, if not all) people in this modern society (esp. among Liberals, who tend to be accepting of people based on individual character, more than on ‘old family’ credentials).
I can remember in my youth that ‘family roots’, ‘family legacy’ was noteworthy :
Ie : if you came from a ‘good’ family, if your parents, grandparents, ancestors were ‘important’ people, it was generally KNOWN !
There was a tendency to ‘leak’ one’s family jewels, and anyone who came close to being ‘blue-blooded’ or the equivalent, was somehow more ‘of note’ just because of that.
Now, ‘coming from a good family’ is something that rarely comes up, nor should it – to exhibit narcissism for the accomplishments of one’s ancestors is to play on an uneven field.
No matter what one’s heritage is, noteworthiness is deserved for an individual’s character & accomplishment in the HERE & NOW.
The playing field is more level now, than it was even in my youth.

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 1:28 pm

Q – A fascinating post –
It’s bizarre for modern-day standards alright, but when you think about it, there are still so many rituals that are still commonplace that will someday seem equally Gothic & strange –
I remember prob. the mid-60’s when we were kids, we moved to a large house in New Westminster, Canada – a house that my dad set about remodeling from top to bottom –
In the attic, we found 3 framed pictures very much like the bottom one you posted : 3 different baby photos, all of whom had died, likely of polio, within months of their births. Inside the frames were dried roses – it was sad beyond belief & spooked me for years after ….
A couple of years earlier, I remember the big news in the neighborhood : the house up the street was hosting an open-house, a memorial for their youngest child (who also died of polio), where the casket was open for all to view & give their blessings. My young brothers & I went in & saw the real face of death in a child for the first time – haunting memories, reminding us that in our lives, there’s always that awareness that ultimate death is an integral part of living ….
I always appreciate a post such as this, Q – anything that opens up dusty corners of our psyches is fascinating stuff IMO πŸ˜‰

» Posted By LiseLives On May 1, 2010 @ 12:57 pm

Friday Music Thread – Fight The Power!

A total non-sequitor song, but I LOVE IT !!

» Posted By LiseLives On April 30, 2010 @ 3:44 pm

Chuck E. Cheese Meets Huffington Post

Ooop, I meant kidding that it bothered you – having no badge is a good thing IMO –

» Posted By LiseLives On April 30, 2010 @ 11:28 am

Fabulous, feisty & hilarious !!! My kind of recipe ….!

» Posted By LiseLives On April 30, 2010 @ 11:25 am

No, she just cuts the cheese πŸ˜€

» Posted By LiseLives On April 30, 2010 @ 11:21 am

Cher, I agree – I think Huff has been flagrant about wanting those extra ‘clicks’ –
I think that’s at the bottom of this badge system, to create a stir, controversy & divisiveness –
Anybody who’s got any class will not want to participate in Huff’s manipulative tactics IMO –

» Posted By LiseLives On April 30, 2010 @ 11:21 am

I created an email address for that moniker only & didn’t keep the log-in info, damn it !

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 7:36 pm

:rofl: – dunno, but it IS funny as hell –

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 7:20 pm

Very elitist, very very cliquey, Republican, vain, arrogant etc. etc. Yep !

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 7:15 pm

As I swing on my porch swing πŸ˜‰ : yes, those were the days alright –
I can remember late, late night skating in Quebec on natural frozen ponds, when it was SAFE for kids to be out ’til all hours for a special night under the stars ….

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 7:13 pm

LOL – I found myself saying : Please make it stop !!

& then realized I could stop it, but kept it in my bookmarks in the Chinese Water Torture Dept. πŸ˜€

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 7:11 pm

Big hug because it’s good to see you πŸ˜‰

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 6:51 pm

Update : At Huff, it’s getting many ANTI votes – even from those with multi-badges –

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 6:50 pm

LOL – into marketing, yes, but not when it comes to burgers, oh noooo –

Just hungry too ! :mrgreen:

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 6:44 pm

Ohhh, that’s so funny !!

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 6:42 pm

I don’t want to badmouth any 1 individual, but the site lost something ‘real’ for me, became like automatons-on-parade …..

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 6:40 pm

Post-yuck, methinks πŸ˜‰

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 6:38 pm

Hi, AuntieC !!

You got 2-badge status there at Huff I see ! πŸ˜‰

Do you dole out free burgers ? :mrgreen:

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 6:37 pm

Whew – it felt like a virtual smiley desert here for a while πŸ˜€

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 6:29 pm

At this pivotal moment, I’d ask that everyone give me a :worship: / :bow: smiley – cause I need to know how incredibly reveled (no!, not revolting) I am –
:mrgreen:

» Posted By LiseLives On April 29, 2010 @ 6:26 pm

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